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Sexless Marriage Can Ruin Your Happiness

Marriage can't give you happiness, but unhappiness thrives in a sexless marriage. Try to think, study, and practice sex for a healthy you. — "The last time I had sex with my wife was 27 years ago. My last child is 27. I am miserable!" "My husband permitted me to have a boyfriend. I did not have sex with him for 11 years. Now, I am so happy with my new boyfriend." Working at…

Sexless Marriages

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Sexless Marriage Can Ruin Your Happiness
Sexless Marriage Can Ruin Your Happiness
Sexless Marriages

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You Cheat & What Next? Never Confess Your Cheating To Your Spouse

If you're not caught red-handed — shut your mouth, go for counseling, or leave the relationship. And things to do to stop cheating. — “Before someone betrayed you, you betrayed yourself.”― Meir Ezra. Akpama: I cheated on my wife. Do you think I need to confess? Me: Why the question? Akpama: We are in counseling. And my wife confessed many things. Me: Tell me more about that affair. Akpama: I had an affair with…

Relationship Advice

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You Cheat & What Next? Never Confess Your Cheating To Your Spouse
You Cheat & What Next? Never Confess Your Cheating To Your Spouse
Relationship Advice

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Addiction Part II: What Is Addiction & Who Can Be Addicted to Drugs Or Behavior?

“An over-indulgence of anything, even something as pure as water, can intoxicate.” — Criss Jami. What is Addiction? Experts define addiction as “a chronic, relapsing disorder characterized by compulsive drug use despite adverse consequences. It is considered a brain disorder because it involves functional changes to brain circuits involved in reward, stress, and…

Addiction

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Addiction Part II: What Is Addiction & Who Can Be Addicted to Drugs Or Behavior?
Addiction Part II: What Is Addiction & Who Can Be Addicted to Drugs Or Behavior?
Addiction

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The Yessba

·May 22

Who Eats Dog Or Cat Meat

Who is the animal eater? Who eats plants? Three secrets you need to know about others' food or lifestyle. — “Tolerance is giving to every other human being every right that you claim for yourself.” — Robert Green Ingersoll. I posted the chicken recipe on my YouTube wellness channel, and one subscriber felt "sad" about the animal recipe. I guessed the person was a vegan. Most of the recipes on…

Advice And Opinion

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Who Eats Dog Or Cat Meat
Who Eats Dog Or Cat Meat
Advice And Opinion

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May 18

Addiction Part 1: Why Can’t People Stop Using Drugs?

The American Society of Addiction Medicine defines addiction as “a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory and related circuitry.” — According to experts, addiction is a brain disease. It can be difficult for some people to stop using drugs without treatment. Let’s think of some people visiting a doctor and getting treatment for diabetes, hypertension, or cancer. Do family members support or encourage them to get treatment?

Addiction

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Addiction Part 1: Why Can’t People Stop Using Drugs?
Addiction Part 1: Why Can’t People Stop Using Drugs?
Addiction

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May 15

Motherhood: A Choice Or An Obligation

Motherhood can be a choice, an obligation, or both. The good news is that there are many ways to have children or be a mother in the modern world. Frankly, being a mother is more than giving birth to a child. Adoption or foster mothering provides a place to choose a child and support the common good. — First, mothers run the world. Well done, all mothers out there. As a mother, never take gaslighting from anyone, including your children.

Motherhood

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Motherhood: A Choice Or An Obligation
Motherhood: A Choice Or An Obligation
Motherhood

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May 13

Women & Money: The Harsh Reality Of The Gender Pay Gap

I. Motherhood: Women tend to get cheap degrees and jobs. — Motherhood. My former company owner and boss didn’t talk to me for a week because I called in sick on Monday to stay home with my school-age ill child. Please don’t blame her because Monday was her money-making day, and all my scheduled appointment was canceled, and no money for…

Advice And Opinion

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Women & Money: The Harsh Reality Of The Gender Pay Gap
Women & Money: The Harsh Reality Of The Gender Pay Gap
Advice And Opinion

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·May 11

Reflecting Positivity: How Seeing Good in Others Helps Discover the Goodness Within Ourselves

Look for good in others if you want to find it in yourself. — During a 2016 presidential debate in the US, the moderator asked Mrs. Hilary Clinton to say something good about her opponent, Mr. Trump. She didn’t hesitate to praise the man’s children and gave the man credit for doing well with his children. Many people knew little about the man’s fatherhood…

Self

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Reflecting Positivity: How Seeing Good in Others Helps Discover the Goodness Within Ourselves
Reflecting Positivity: How Seeing Good in Others Helps Discover the Goodness Within Ourselves
Self

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May 8

The Hidden Realities: The Dark Side of Growing Old

Part 1: Mag lived and died alone in her house. She was discovered five days later. — Mag died in a cul-de-sac on a dirt street about two miles from the county road. Each home on the street has a long driveway about 400 feet apart from one another. Her house, painted yellowish green, always came alive during the holiday season, and a few years ago, there…

Aging

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The Hidden Realities: The Dark Side of Growing Old
The Hidden Realities: The Dark Side of Growing Old
Aging

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·May 4

ThePower of Love, Peace, and Community: Embracing Yourself and Your Neighbor

“Love your neighbor as yourself for the sake of peace. That’s what we need to adopt to be a better country.” — Brandon Marshall. — My name is Arita, and here’s my story. I received a package, and it wasn’t mine. It belonged to my neighbor, two houses from mine. I took the box to my neighbor, and he was on the driveway, and I said hello. The neighbor looked away while I was talking…

Love Yourself

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The Power of Love, Peace, and Community: Embracing Yourself and Your Neighbor
The Power of Love, Peace, and Community: Embracing Yourself and Your Neighbor
Love Yourself

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Bassey BY

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I write lifestyle stories that help us get healthier, wiser, happier,& wealthier. I like to organize, garden, cook & invest. https://bassey.medium.com/subscribe

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