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Blame Your Cheating Husband, Not His Mistress
He is responsible for his actions, not you or others. Here’s why?
All questions and blame must go to the cheating spouse to answer and explain things to their partners and others. Choose not to blame yourself or make excuses for them; however, take care of your mental health.
Blame your cheating husband, not his mistress. He is responsible for his actions, not you or others.
I’m not here for a pity party or to tell you what to do or how to feel but to express my view on cheating spouses. Many women and men cheat on their spouses, and women are often blamed and scorned by everyone.
Why is your spouse cheating?
All questions must go to the cheating spouse to answer and explain things to their partners and others. Choose not to blame yourself or make excuses for them; however, take care of your mental health.
Women and men cheat because of unhappiness, greed, and every other excuse under the sun. Take the case of Chief Jeff and Lauren Sanchez, which you might have read about on the internet. This is a classic example of how cheating can lead to destructive behavior. Look up at the new couple (the Bezos) then and now.
Infidelity is a destructive force that shatters trust and can be a trail of emotional baggage for all people involved. This knowledge, too often, helps me distance myself from those who manipulate and deceive.
Second, what I know is many men cheat as they want, and many women cheat when they have had enough or have a specific goal to achieve with a strange man.
Be an inspiration for yourself and young women.
Be an inspiration for yourself and young women.
This story is not to shame or support your husband’s mistress. The focus should not be on her but on your husband’s actions and, more importantly, your empowerment and self-reflection.
There is no point in making excuses for one’s husband or blaming everything and everyone for his behavior. It makes no sense to warn your husband’s mistress; instead, face the truth or do things differently.
Let’s stop hating Lauren Sanchez, Jennifer Flower, Alicia Keys, Monica Lewinsky, JZ’s mistress, Jada Pinkett Smith, or Kamala.
Let’s take our power back, let go of the bitterness, and enjoy life.
Help yourself grow. Get good with your life.
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