Yes.

I'll be concern too.

Was this boy testing you?

Computer science is lucrative career in the US and most people I know work while going to school.

And computer science is not like nursing or medicine that you have to be with your books and patients 24/7 to do well in school.

Is the young man a helper or provider to his family? One of my son's friends was. He worked since he was 14 to help his overworked mother and sister.

What attracted your daughter to this young man?