Thanks for sharing.
It’s all about acceptance and for parents to create another expectation. Maybe grief, and last, accept yourself and your child. No matter what, our children are our children. The trail is there!
Your father is an independent thinker and has his own life.
There are men and families like yours in Nigeria who accommodate their loved ones no matter what.
It’s true that many Nigerian families like to discuss disowning their children who are on their payroll. It’s gay now; before, it used to be OSU, tribe, social class, education, etc.
Congratulations and blessings to your family.