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My Husband Married Our Babysitter; Now, She Is In, and I'm Out
Uyai's story #13: Twenty years after the divorce. Your life is what you do, not how you feel. You can start over. You are not too young or too old to achieve your goals.
Be opened-minded. Today's data may change tomorrow or next year, or a decade — your life can change for the better.
Keep hope alive in all your wins or losses. Hold onto the lesson of betrayal or failure. Look inward and keep hoping, believing, working, and asking.
I was concerned my divorce would affect the children's lives, but the community helped them thrive. It takes a village to raise a well-adjusted child — my family and some friends did a fantastic job supporting us during our most challenging time.
Twenty years after a divorce, I am glad we parted ways. I decided not to beg Ken to reconsider a divorce because I was worth more than a cheating…