Love takes time, and it's not something you can buy with talking points but with actions.
The woman in your story was thinking aloud, and I hope she starts loving herself more.
Yes, men and women get into relationships becasue of many things, but some people work things out as they grow.
I think the best love story is one person in the relationship loves more than the other. And it works most if the person is a man.
I loved and enjoyed your conversation.