It's a culture people are proud of, just as they were proud of killing twins.

This issue can negatively affect these children as adults.

My grandmother died after childbirth when my mother was 13. She cared for seven siblings and continues to care for some of them and their children and grandchildren. Today, she lives a good life because she always has people visiting her.

I didn't babysit any of my siblings as a chore but helped around the house and in my mom's business. My mother hired a maid for us, and I hired a babysitter for my kids.

Also, I assigned chores for my children. And now, they know how to do everything on their own, but sometimes, they hire others to help them too.