Insightful and a good story!
I'll not call them dumb and forgetful, but doing what is right for them as an individual, not for Black people. I think Trump is what some of them know and experienced as a father, grandfather, father figure, or a choice.
You always have choices.
Why do you think abused women stayed with their abusive husband or boyfriend? Many reasons, but not having earning power often the case!
Open your eyes and ears.