I'm glad your sister has you to talk to until she has enough experience as a parent.

Most of my former clients were like your sister. And today, they are without a student loan to worry about, but they continue to douth themselves and let their feeling ruins their relationships with their parents. Sad!

We all have something that our parents did wrong, and as parents, we have done one or two bad things with our kids. Then the question is, who is perfect in this world? None!

I cannot help these people but give them that line I wrote above. I hope they take care of themselves and permit professionals to help them with non-issues such as parents paying their college loan, helping them with a car down payment, making them do chores in the house, keeping them from having stupid feelings, and stopping them from going out with useless friends who are working as babysitters for life.

Yes, your sister has the right to feel what she feels until she can't provide basic things to her child.

Way to go, Brother!