I heard you. First, congratulations 🎈🍾 I wish you the very best in your marriage.
We all have unreliable family members and friends.
As always, my self-respect trumps everything. And, I don’t expect anything from special friends and family members. They are good people and there are important things they can’t do. The same with me, there are things I can’t do.
As you mentioned, I continue to love and accept them for who they are.