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Pastor Mike: I forgave my wife. We’re raising the child as our own.
Wife Morgan: I had an affair with our helper, and he got me pregnant. I didn’t know until I delivered the baby. The baby is a different race…
Pastor Mike: I forgave myself. I was not there when my wife needed me. We are working this out, and it is going to strengthen our relationship.
OK! Would you forgive a person who raped you or killed your only child?
First thing first, never judge someone who chooses not to forgive themselves and others. We can stop expecting people to be like us.
Psychologist Rubin Khoddam says forgiveness takes time and is something that helps improve our health and relationship. For example, your good health and positive relationship can add happiness and freedom to your life.
What do you think?
The truth is you have the right to forgive or not to forgive yourself and others. Forgiveness takes time, energy, and it’s something you can choose to do when you’re ready. Keep and nourish good memory and destroy the bad ones for the sake of…
