Allison,

Excellent and insightful story for all of us.

I read this story many times and i think it’s time for Black women to say NO to boys and yes to men who think and work — -a maintenance man ,or a doctor, or a millionaire.

Set your standard direct and clear.

For the quote: All women need a man not a boy. I think most women need a man with confidence and he makes money. Money helps with confidence and most importantly, for men.

I do believe black women can do what works for them and only date men, never boys.

How do you raised men? Stop cooking, cleaning, or giving spending money to your healthy sons, brothers, and boyfriends. Stop buying the music that insults womanhood.

Agreed! Making Black women uncomfortable because they go after what they want is gaslighting and primitive.

Be honest, a Black woman. You can’t be everything to everyone . Get your life, do what you want and have fun while living.

Open your eyes because at the end of the day, these people with a little money always date and marry people they want!

For now, choose a partner not a loser🦅

I appreciate you and your work. Thanks!