Agreed. The goal here is to get to know the real you and the truth about your partner.

One of my partner’s behaviors didn’t work out well for our family. And the behavior almost destroyed the marriage.

But psychotherapy helped him detailed the truth behind this behavior and how he can manage the negative effects of his behavior on his own family.

It worked.

Then I knew why he behaved the way he did and took over the needed bad cop role to help our family grow.

Is the behavior still there? Yes, because it’s who he is and how he wants to live his life.

Note:
Domestic violence can’t be tolerated in marriage because it “kills” body and soul.

Thanks for sharing!