#1 Self-interest helps you grow and find a sense of purpose to care for others.

As individuals, it is automatic to look for ourselves first in a group photo, and most of us turn our heads when a baby screams in a supermarket.

Two things that drive us are self-interest and caring for others.

1. Self-interest :

Some people equate self-interest to outright selfishness. I hear this all…


Is forgiveness happiness and freedom? Join the conversation.

Pastor Mike: I forgave my wife. We’re raising the child as our own.

Wife Morgan: I had an affair with our helper, and he got me pregnant. I didn’t know until I delivered the baby. The baby is a different race…

Pastor Mike: I forgave myself. I was not there…

Look for pride, patience, and self-discipline.

What do you want from a friend? How much have you grown with your friend in two or five years?

The world-class advice goes if you want to be successful, walk with successful people. That is somewhat true. But how do you define success? We all describe our success differently…


The wealthy own your brain and use theirs to get richer and wiser. Part 1.

As always, wealth is subjective.

We can agree on what we can learn from the wealthy, and I bet you, the rich people, learn from us too.

We all know the popular talking points: “The rich people steal from us. They take over our neighborhood. They take our women and…

Writers/ Gratitude/Thanks

For awesome writers who make a difference in the world. Part. II

Thanks so much for what you do. All fantastic writers here work hard to make a change in the world. I appreciate you and your work. Thanks again for helping me improve my life and my work.

“I never met a bitter person who was thankful. Or a thankful person…

Positive Psychology/Lifestyle/Mindset

Positive thinking is not free, and it's not for everyone. Does it work? Let's find out.

Positive thinking is not for everyone, and it's not automatic. Does it work? Let's find out.

No = Next opportunities — look for the “hidden agenda.”

Fail= First attempt in learning — keep learning, playing, and working.

End= Effort never ends — Keep pushing, believing, and hoping.

This week is…


3 Tips: Celebrate and show your talent, stop being at the end of the line, and more.

“If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?” — Maya Angelou

Be kind to yourself, celebrate and show your talent, and stop being at the end of the line.

I” ve heard these sentences and phases million times.

Be kind…


My sincere appreciation to these incredible writers and readers. Part 1.

My partner thanks me every time he finishes eating dinner. It doesn't matter if I cook the food or he cooks it. He shows appreciation every day. I used to interrupt his thank you, but I learned to be happy and grateful.

Today, I say thank you to you.


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LMSW🦅social worker*I write about happiness, health, wisdom, & wealth* I admire puzzle pieces, a garden, kitchen,& wallet *Help yourself grow* Kulifestyle.com

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